Tuesday, April 08, 2008

My experiments with Love...

Love at first sight.....This is a very wrong statement I must say....if it’s true....then what is crush??...what is infatuation??.... There is thin line of difference between crush, infatuation and LOVE...
Love is something that builds up gradually when you are in contact of the concerned person...when u get to know her lifestyle... her attitude towards life...how compatible the person is with u in anything or everything....and when love happens...U don’t even know it happened...There is just a need to say it in words....rest all is quite obvious...
I also don’t believe that love happens only once....if it’s true then who the hell has said “Just move on in life”...Relationships form and they break.....We do not understand why the person we loved so much has become unbearable now??...why has the relationship just become a mere formality?? ...Its just a matter of chance that we break up....
The time u come out of a relationship is the time u r most susceptible to a new relationship..It’s the time u need an emotional support....That forms the basis of a new relationship..And it happens all over again...
Some people are not lucky enough to get a chance to know their crushes...(yeah crushes...coz I don’t believe in Love at first sight).....Maybe because they are shy....or its destined to be so...Whatever be the case never get obsessed with someone so much that she laughs at you when you pass by her and just that single sarcastic smile makes you cry..She mayb the world to u.....but U aren’t nething to her...Sounds bitter but true...


Disclaimer: The above mentioned words are not true for all the people...Exceptions are always there...This is my personal opinion...No offences...Any resemblance with any person is purely coincidental...

9 Comments:

At Tuesday, April 08, 2008 3:26:00 AM , Blogger Antra Khurana said...

I agree with you completely buddy...................
Personally i dont even believe in the concept of love as the mere absurdity makes me laugh.....

 
At Tuesday, April 08, 2008 7:01:00 AM , Blogger goyalakshay said...

dude...seems like u hv done a bachelors degree in love

 
At Friday, April 11, 2008 12:22:00 PM , Blogger Unknown said...

Well experiments with love.. apt one!!

Beautifully written!!

Done some Ph. D or what??
:P

 
At Saturday, April 19, 2008 3:56:00 PM , Blogger Unknown said...

Hi buddy
I appreciate ur writing....
but at the same time don't agree with ur point.."I also don’t believe that love happens only once...."
???????
Better first know what love is ? nd den post ur writings....
Plz don't deviate ppl who r in love ...at least don't make them loose their trust......
otherwise REMANING RELATIONSHIP WOULD ALSO TURN INTO A BREAK OFF....

my opinion is if you say "I LOVE YOU" then mean it that its uniquely for that individual irrespective of whether you get your love or you are bein mocked....
;)

 
At Sunday, April 20, 2008 12:48:00 AM , Blogger Abhishek jain said...

@red
dude or dudette....
seems u hvnt read the whole article...i hv written a disclaimer to rule out all the criticisms....u r most welcome to express ur views...wat u are saying is true..but to some extent...
"if you say "I LOVE YOU" then mean it that its uniquely for that individual irrespective of whether you get your love or you are bein mocked...."
I m not sayin that u go around saying "i love u" to everyone...
moreover if u r being mocked by the other side..there is no use..its just a sacrifice of ur self respect..nothin else...
and..."self respect" should not be sacrificed for anything...

 
At Saturday, April 26, 2008 12:53:00 PM , Blogger Unknown said...

Hi Mr. Jain
:) I had posted ma views after reading ur entire article only...
newaz can u plz elaborate the point of bein "practical"...nd being "emotional'....

 
At Sunday, April 27, 2008 12:25:00 AM , Blogger Abhishek jain said...

Hi Miss/Mr red..:)
See....Being emotional is fine....coz this is the lone basis of all the relationships and love between people...

There r 3 phases:
they promote u emotionally and demote u practically

1)Emotional
2)Very Emotional
3)Emotional fool

going till level 2 is okay.....but being on level 3 is mere avoidance of practicality...

So practicality and emotionality goes side by side...A proper balance is necessary...

Now if u hv some other views...I wud be delighted to be enlightened by u...

:)

 
At Friday, October 03, 2008 11:52:00 AM , Blogger Arunima said...

well i think i shud b counted in d xceptions coz I truly believe in love at 1st sight.
but vat amazes me more is dat abhishek is talking abt love n dat 2 in so depth?
keep it up buddy?

 
At Friday, July 31, 2009 8:56:00 AM , Blogger Indifferent said...

I AM WITH YOU BUDDY BUT NOT COMPLETELY....I AGREE THAT LOVE DOESN'T HAPPENS AT FIRST SIGHT, IT GRADUALLY BUILDS UP...BUT ITS UP TO A PERSON TO MAINTAIN IT.....IF ONE CAN'T SACRIFICE, MAINTAIN AND TAKE FORWARD THE RELATIONSHIP, THEN AT FIRST HE WASN'T IN LOVE....LOVE MEANS BEING WITH ONE FOREVER, SACRIFICING AND BEING HAPPY IN IT.IT IS LIKE BEING IN A RIVER WHICH NEVER STOPS HOWSOEVER BIG STONES COMES IN ITS WAY.....AND YES FOR ME LOVE IS ONLY ONE TIME, IT CAN'T HAPPEN AGAIN.

 

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